Hope for Gavin

October 12, 2009

Just last March, my 3-year old nephew Gavin was diagnosed with Tay-Sachs Disease – an extremely rare fatal genetic disorder that progressively destroys the brain and nervous system.

(This is Gavin taken March of 2008.)

Even though Gavin was a laid back child, he seemed to develop normally – doing things any other toddler would like walking, playing, and biking. One thing he never was able to do is speak. But his regression over the past few months is undeniable. He can no longer walk unassisted and is not able to eat solid food anymore – in fact, last week, he underwent a major surgery to attach a feeding tube to his stomach.

Unfortunately, there is no known cure for this disease, no preventive treatment to stop the brain from regressing. According to sources, children with Tay-Sachs usually do not live beyond five years of age – and at this time, all doctors can do is make sure the affected children are as comfortable as possible.

But Gavin’s family and friends are not giving up. As long as the sun rises everyday, and Gavin still breathes, there is hope. Researchers are investigating several treatments for Tay-Sachs, but none have passed the experimental stage yet.

I can’t imagine what Gavin’s parents are going through. Just looking at my two daughters and thinking “What if it’s them?” breaks my heart. And I know I must do something, anything, to aid Gavin’s cause. I’ve decided to organize a fundraiser, as detailed below. All proceeds will be donated to Gavin’s Trust Fund. The trust fund will be used for special equipment and other expenses he will need to make his life as comfortable as possible. In the words of another family suffering from Tay-Sachs – “to give him the best memories he can have”. (I hope they don’t mind that I borrowed their words.)

HOPE FOR GAVIN
CHRISTMAS CARD DRIVE

I thought this time of year is perfect for doing a Christmas card fundraising drive – especially for a very good and urgent cause such as this. (I’m afraid time is against my nephew.) The premise of this two-part campaign is to accumulate funds from selling handmade cards that will be donated to Gavin’s Trust Fund.

Part I
I’m reaching out to the generous spirits of crafty and creative people to donate handmade Christmas cards. For those wishing to participate (and I hope there are a lot of you that will), please post a comment with a valid email address so I can email you the mailing address. You can send as many handmade Christmas cards as you want, and please don’t forget to include an envelope to go with each card. The deadline to participate is November 20.

(If you want to make a card or write a note of support to Gavin’s family, feel free to do so. You can mail it together with the cards you’re going to donate, and I’ll make sure the card/note goes to them.)

Part II
This is where we sell the cards you’ve graciously donated. More information on Part II will be posted soon.

My deepest thanks to everybody who made this fundraiser possible – those who donated Christmas cards, those who donated money, and those who bought the cards. I am truly grateful. We have raised a little over a thousand dollars – not bad, in my opinion – a good enough reason to consider this fundraiser a success. Thanks again so much. In our own little way, we have all helped Gavin. (December 11, 2009)

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Mia Encarnacion October 12, 2009 at 1:00 pm

Hi Johwey, this is such a wonderful thing you are doing for Gavin. I don’t know how to make cards but I can help you sell them. Anything else we can do to help? God bless you and all the good you do!

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Tian Ki Quah October 12, 2009 at 9:00 pm

I am from Bangkok, and would like to participate in sending some home made Christmas cards. I hope it’s ok that I am not very artistic or creative for that matter.. but I would really like to help.

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Winnie Yeoh October 12, 2009 at 9:57 pm

Hi Johwey,

I hope all is well! I really hope the best for Gavin and reading his predicament breaks my heart into pieces.

Thanks for organizing this activity to raise public awareness for the kids and thanks for your hardwork. Thanks for making a difference to this world. I must say this is one brilliant idea which combines creativity and charity cause. My heart is all with Gavin, I can only pray that he’s strong enough to face challenges ahead.

I’m from Malaysia/Kuala Lumpur. May I know where I should send the x’mas card to? I’ll get some of my friends/colleagues to do it too and I hope the cards can reach you in time – before November 12, 2009.

Thanks and regards,
Winnie

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Eureka Resources October 13, 2009 at 9:12 am

Hello Johwey,

Greetings from Malaysia. I got to know about your blog through Facebook. Sorry to hear about your nephew’s condition. My thoughts and prayers go out to Gavin and his family.

I understand that you are looking for handmade cards. I will try and see if I can make any. No promises though. But what I can offer for sure are Christmas gift stickers and mini gift tags. I designed them myself and got them printed. If you are keen to sell them, I am more than happy to send them to you. I also have generic gift tags to spare.

Hope to hear from you soon.

Kind regards,
Eunice

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Darah Merto October 13, 2009 at 5:11 pm

Joyce and I went to elementary, middle and high school together. I would love to send you homemade cards.

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Sherbet Manalili October 14, 2009 at 11:06 am

Hi, Johwey. Saw a post about Gavin from a friend’s post on Facebook. I would really love to help. I have four wonderful kids–two girls and two boys. I can truly empathize–so heartbreaking.

Thanks for the wonderful idea.

Good day,
Sherbet

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Lynn Mangan October 14, 2009 at 11:08 am

Johwey,

I found your site from Jennifer McGuire’s site. I would love to send some Christmas cards to help Gavin’s family.

Please send me the address. Thank you.

Lynn

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Nhu Hua October 14, 2009 at 11:09 am

Hello, I am interested in sending cards in for your campaign. May I get the add? Thanks!

Natalie Hua

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Fon Mee Chung October 14, 2009 at 11:10 am

Johwey,

Read about Gavin in your blog directed from Jennifer’s site. I wish to send some Christmas cards. Would you please send me the address?

Thank you.
Fon Mee aka Hannie

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Cathy Florendo October 15, 2009 at 6:23 am

Perfect!!! I just signed up with “Close to my Heart”. Will definitely start making cards today.

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Brenda October 15, 2009 at 8:08 am

I’ll look forward to Part II …where/when I can purchase the cards made :)

God bless~
Brenda

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Anna Liesemeyer October 15, 2009 at 8:22 am

I would be happy to participate. What an incredible story and initiative. I love making cards too!

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Marti Schrock October 15, 2009 at 11:12 am

I am sorry to hear about little Gavin and his suffering. I would like to help by sending you some Christmas cards. Please send me your mailing address and I will get started creating.

Marti Schrock
Franklin, Indiana, USA

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Fatima Carreiro October 15, 2009 at 11:16 am

Please let me know where I can send cards. Thanks.

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Alvin Tayag October 15, 2009 at 11:18 am

Can you please give me the mailing address where to send the Hand made Christmas Card?

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nanny October 15, 2009 at 12:18 pm

I’m proud of your initiative to raise funds for Gavin. I can send you cash instead of homemade cards. From my contribution you can make more cards. I have another idea to help Gavin. I’m writing Janelle. I’ll copy you. I’ll pray this worthwhile drive will be successful.

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Anita October 15, 2009 at 12:56 pm

Please send your address – would like to help with Christmas card fundraising drive Anita

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Becky October 15, 2009 at 4:45 pm

What a great idea. I feel so helpless and this is something I can do to help Jan and Gavin and other children with TSD. God answers prayers and God performs miracles. There’s hope through Him. Thank you for this opportunity to contribute to this little known, yet worthy cause. :)

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Megan Jacobs October 15, 2009 at 6:25 pm

This is perfect I just finished about 50 Christmas cards. I am more than happy to send some to you. I look forward to hearing from you. This is a great idea. I have sold cards myself for fundraising purposes and it is a lovely idea!!

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Judy1223 October 15, 2009 at 6:32 pm

I would love to donate handmade Christmas cards for such a worthy cause. Please e-mail me mailing address! Gavin and his family will be in our prayers.

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Cherry Borro October 15, 2009 at 7:47 pm

Jan, Me and my family are willing to help. I’d love to with open arm. Just be open to me and I will know what to do. If you need something like I can have my church help too. I tried calling you but no response. I know you and Bong are busy. We will continue to pray. Call me.

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Karen Walker October 15, 2009 at 7:59 pm

I would love to send some cards.

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Mira Davis October 15, 2009 at 8:32 pm

I would be more than happy to send you some cards to sale.

God bless, Mira

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Lynn Sspencer October 15, 2009 at 9:24 pm

I would love to make some cards. Please send me an address where to send the cards. I have added your nephew to my prayer list.
Lynn

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andrea bilich October 15, 2009 at 9:37 pm

what a beautiful little boy – i am so sorry to hear of his illness – please email the address for xmas cards – i am sending love and prayers for his family.
andrea in australia

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Christine Robinson October 15, 2009 at 11:41 pm

Hi from Queensland, Australia, i would love to send some christmas cards to help such a worthy cause, please let me know your address

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Claudia Romero October 16, 2009 at 8:30 am

Your not alone, miracles exist….Our prayers are with you and your family…

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Harriet Emmerton October 16, 2009 at 10:41 am

What a privelege to be able to do something so fun to help someone.

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Gail Vogt October 16, 2009 at 10:54 am

I would love to make some cards for this great cause! Please forward me an address where to send them.

Gail

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Aleia October 16, 2009 at 11:37 am

Hello, I saw you on Twitter, and would absolutely love to send some handmade cards. Just tell me how many and what kind and where to send them! Hope to hear from you soon.

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Nova October 16, 2009 at 5:30 pm

I’d love to participate as well. Good on you for doing this drive Anita.

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Cathj October 16, 2009 at 8:57 pm

I’m In. Brilliant idea.

Lots of love

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Nino Noble October 17, 2009 at 5:59 am

i would like to participate. i will ask my group if they are interested to help

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Bianca Tanaka October 17, 2009 at 6:57 am

Joyce & I went to high school together. Please send me more info. on how I can help. Thank you!

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Brenda McEntyre October 17, 2009 at 7:50 am

What a great idea- would love to help by sending cards!
Brenda

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Tami Hall October 17, 2009 at 9:27 am

I would love to send you some cards! Please send me the address. Your family is in my prayers.

Tami Hall
thall729@aol.com

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Sandy F October 17, 2009 at 10:16 am

What a great project this is, how thoughtful of you to help you nephew. I would like to participate so please send me the address. Best wishes.

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Daisy M. Dy-L October 17, 2009 at 11:14 am

I’d like to help. I can make some cards for this cause.
I will pray for Gavin and comfort for his parents as well.

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Elena October 17, 2009 at 4:15 pm

I would love to help with your card drive.

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cheryl October 18, 2009 at 11:23 pm

I would love to help out if I may, lots of prayers and love to Gavin and his family

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Charlene Alsbaugh and Catherine Fullaway-Parker October 19, 2009 at 9:34 am

please send us the info. We’re planning on hosting a “card party” with some of our creative friends. Our thoughts are with your family.

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Mary Dang October 19, 2009 at 12:42 pm

Hi there Johwey,

I think this is such a great fundraising idea to raise money for Gavin and the Tay Sach’s Foundation. I am fortunate enough to know your cousin, Joyce, and she has introduced me to Gavin, Janelle, and Bong. The whole family is incredibly loving, caring, and inspiring to all of us.

Please email me your address.

Thank you,
Mary

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Laura Gutierrez October 19, 2009 at 2:45 pm

Greetings,

We would love to participate in this drive and would like to get the address to send the cards to.

Best!
Laura

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Catherine Fullaway October 19, 2009 at 2:48 pm

Hi,
I am one of Joyce’s co-workers. Me and a group of friends would love to donate handmade Christmas cards for Gavin. Please e-mail me the mailing address for the cards.

Thank you

Catherine

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Karen Calcutt October 19, 2009 at 10:47 pm

I would love to try and participate in this, could you please email me the address. I will also post this on my forum and see if I can get a few more to participate.

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Melanie Laygo - Vargas October 20, 2009 at 4:00 am

Jan/Bong, my prayers are always with you and Gavin. I will definately make time to make a few cards – for Gavin

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Jennifer McNeely October 20, 2009 at 6:37 pm

I would love to send a few cards. Prayers for Gavin.

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Emily October 20, 2009 at 8:07 pm

My classmates and I would like to help. Please email me your address.

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asa October 23, 2009 at 10:15 am

Johwey– I’d like to donate some cards. Let me know where to mail them. I’ll be praying for your nephew.

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Michelle V. Reynon October 25, 2009 at 10:34 pm

Great idea!! Let me know if any of my services could help out in anyway…I will definitely spread the word….Love and prayers for Gavin!!

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